User blog comment:CykeP/I need some unbiased advice/@comment-53539-20160308074415/@comment-53539-20160308180940

Yeah, but I don't know what you mean by "bias" here don't forget. ;-)

I think the only reason I can even talk about these things purely is my age to be fair. A lot of the others in this fandom as teenagers or young adults themselves and dealing with this stuff. These things always seem worst when your young, but by the time you get over the "youth" days its pretty much... Meh. I mean not everything is like that "Real housewives..." TV series where everyone is bitching or "Bridezilla" where the friends suck up or get pushed around easily until they obey without care or walk out. Those shows are for entertainment afterall, most things in the real world end up being mediocre.

though a loner at highschool, I was able to observe a lot of highschool circles. Since I didn't spread gossip I got to hear all of it. I guess everyone felt I was "safe". I really could have done some damage with that crap they talked about to their circles. But I didn't. Furthermore I was Register Monitor, which meant I collected the register everyday and nobody else was allowed to do it except class captain (aka class rep) or class sports captain. So I also not only HEARD gossip, but saw it, like notes about "X girl" having headlice and being off to treat them.

The highlight of my highschool;

Honestly, since I was bullied I just stayed away from trouble most of the time unless someone really pushed the buttons... Like the time that girl broke my bag... She never did it again though... I kinda gave her a lot of bruises. I don't recommend violence, its just a LOT of people in my year didn't realized I actually worked out at home privately. I was stronger then some of the boys, but I just... Kept it to myself. I didn't look stronger and was a total book worm. I didn't know how to fight though. If she'd have known how to fight back... I'd not been able to do anything. Luckily, she didn't.

Trust me, if I wasn't teachers pet and the head of my year wasn't looking for an excuse to exclude the girl, I'd never gotten away with that. And her friend just thought it was funny the lone, geeky girl left bruises on her. But... I pushed the limits there and they COULD have retaliated or I could have been the one excluded...But... This is off topic now.

I just wanted to get through that prt of my life, you know without hassle... Never understood why bullies even bothered with me. I wasn't worth the hassle and it's not like I thought myself above them, I kinda thought of myself as beneath them to be honest... :-/