User blog comment:OtterJiang/How I Need to Conduct Myself Here/@comment-53539-20150202163903

You mean me...?

Hey, listen its okay... We all get uppity at SOME point. Just relax. Its not like you went out of your way to bully someone nor were insulting them on racial, other levels of pitiness along those lines. You just got carried away. Your heart in is the right place, thats kinda important.

Sometime I can be short tempered, because, hey, I've been on the net a long time and dealt with every sort of debate and dealt with a lot of different people. You learn to just suck it up, let it go and come back another day.

You summed it up yourself; you don't know the person on the other side of the internet. They have a life that can be a mystery or an open book. And even then from experience not everyone will be like they are in real life. Hell, I can give an example myself right now; in real life I'm REALLY, REALLY shy... As in... As in "Fluttershy" levels of shy.

Best I can give you is take a day or two off and come back with a relaxed mind.

Besides... if you want an example of something totally unacceptable, then you've seen it with Planty at this point. So long as you do nothing of that level, you can get along n a community even if someone disagrees with you. Someone upsets you you should either ignore or report them. Simple. If everyone had the same opinions, experiences or ideas, we'd still be in the stone age right now arguing over if going south to chase deer to eat or go north to find wolves to cull for their fur.

The only issue I had was I wanted to discuss boxarts and while that was fine, you just kept sticking to SeeU or were criticizing the act of judging boxarts. Or going on about whatever we ended up discussing, I could see where it was going and had pretty much put up the "lets end this here" sign because I don't think the other editors need to hear an argument. ^_^'