User blog comment:TenshiAkari12/So... yet another boo-hoo worthy blog post./@comment-53539-20140613172952/@comment-53539-20140614074408

My aunt went to a funeral on my father's side of the family. While she was there she had a rumour about something passed onto her from that family section about my grandfather was suppose to have done to someone else.

Except... My grandfather was in the middle of WW2 and stuck in Europe at the time in a army hospital at the time it supposedly happened. Basically, its a signal of my grandfather's generation, just what lengths they'd go to to get a dig at each other. :-/

Then there is the case of family history, which is a hobby my great uncle and father both shared. The 3 sons of the family in my grandfather's gen were left the details of the family's heritage. When the two eldest died, my grandfather being the eldest member of his family, the only one left with details was my great uncle....Oh so... He thought...

My father inherited all the stuff from my grandfather and continued his work. Eventually, while I was at university, my great uncle published his findings, to utter humiliation for my family. Much of the published stuff contained my father's research and findings, basically he stole my father's work. But... My father hadn't had contact with him and exchanged notes in 3 years, so everything was out of date that my great uncle had.

So my grandfather's gen curse extended into my father's generation and the consequences is yet another section of the family fell out with each other. My father tied to get me and my brother interested into this stuff, but after seeing how our family was tearing itself apart over whose family is related to who else, we vowed to never take an interest in it. So whatever research my father does, dies with him, we don't want any part of this at all.

To make matters worst, not better, my and I father fell out and I ended up being rescued from a bad situation nearly 3 years ago. My father believed to keep his family together, mental and physical abuse were the best methodologies... Basically, keeping the family together via forcing you to stay against your will. He did that because of what he saw in my grandfather's generation and how they were torn apart. So now the curse of my father's generation has impacted my generation...

Yeah, family feuding at its best... :-/