User blog comment:Serza5/Now that's a pondering; my future./@comment-53539-20140722072208

Sometimes things work, sometimes they don't.

I've left a fandom before because of A-holes, so the worst case scenario is always leaving on a bad whim. But... In comparison to how savage the situation was with that fandom, so far I've not seen anything too bad happen to you. You shouldn't hang around a fandom you can't get on with, but sometimes a little tough love doesn't hurt either.

Its all up to you, focus on what you want to do and not what everyone is begging you to do. In the end, the person who decides to leave or stay is you. I will say, its rather hard to break into a community, once you're there, easier to stay. But its even easier to leave. But if you leave, the HARDEST thing I've ever found is replacing what you've lost. Thats no an issue if you've got other places, but for me, I found this is the reason I've yet left. :-/

I won't dress any fandom up and make it look good, sometimes its best not to interact with a fanbase at all. Even here at this wikia we're far from perfect. But... Would you rather the devil you know then the devil you don't?

Either way, good luck.