Talk:Utatane Piko/@comment-34606486-20180703194235/@comment-25751139-20180812105825

Angel, you're wrong. You're overreacting over something you're just very biased about, and that actually makes things worse. Just because you have experienced situations where a headcannon creates a toxic environment, it doesn't mean that it will always happen, and it doesn't mean that you should treat all of them like "potentially dangerous" (I know, I'm exaggerating) and try to correct them as quickly as possible.

This doesn't mean I don't agree with you. You clearly now a lot and have a lot more experience on the Internet than me and probably most of us in this comment thread. But at the same time, you should know how someone who goes correcting everyone actually contributes to the toxicity of a community... it's not very nice and it ultimately helps nobody.

A headcannon IS harmless. They're its followers the ones who are not, there's a difference there. For example, I might ship the MC of a series with a side character, and that isn't acknowledge by the canon of the story, but I still think they look cute together even if I know it will never happen. How can that be bad? It's fine if someone doesn't like it, but that doesn't give them the right to shove me right into my face the fact that my ship isn't canon because yeah, I already know. It's unnecessary and again, it won't help me and it won't help to stop other people from going crazy over my same headcanon.

Usually the ones that don't understand that are young teens/children and immature people. Do you actually think you can actually change their mind? Do you think a random person on the internet they don't care about will convince them? Do you, really? If not, well then, there you have your answer about why you're wrong over this.

And by the way, please don't think I hate you or something because I've been disagreeing with you lately, I respect you a lot. But I think you shouldn't treat things on the Internet so seriously... I also might be exaggerating about this, but I really think it doesn't do good to anyone.