User blog comment:Serza5/Now that's a pondering; my future./@comment-12633677-20140724134336/@comment-30602727-20140724220713

I think what Chev said at the end was a little harsh and overboard... "you'll actually make friends.". I agree with Mihael, I haven't seen one person actually not try to make friends either. It's not easy here. Everyone's opinions clash and can cause the relationship to go down the drain. Sometimes, the relationship can't be saved. And to be honest, the community over here hasn't been any good lately, so I can understand Serza for wanting to leave. And hell, I don't even know when Serza is even rude anymore. Or I understand that a certain comment can make her mad and upset. Sure, that makes me sound like a total stalker, but I've read her posts from time to time, I'm used to the way she writes and I figured that what she writes wasn't intended to come off as rude at all. It's not entirely a matter of "read what you write before you post it." To her, it might look and sound fine, and to me it might look and sound fine. It's a matter of "tone" and basically "the little voice in the back of your head" reading. Her tone is different than others. What is okay for her, might not look okay to you. We don't read the same way.

Also, everyone handles anger differently. It's not her fault she handles it differently than others would. I personally would blow up if someone is starting a fight. I wouldn't handle it calmly because I can't. You can see a fine example on that DA issue blog that I posted months ago. I don't think Serza is rude unless she has to deal with someone she doesn't like. I've read her posts enough times to understand why she's feeling like she is now and how she reacts.